How to Handle the Holiday Season Alone (or on a Budget)
The holiday season is supposed to be “the most wonderful time of the year,” right?
But for many of us, it’s complicated.
Maybe you’ve lost your job. Maybe your plans changed. Maybe the people you used to spend holidays with aren’t around anymore. Or maybe this year just feels… different.
If that’s you, I see you. And I want you to know that you’re not alone, even if it feels like it.
This year, I’ve been learning that you don’t need a big celebration, a packed calendar, or a picture-perfect tree to feel joy. Sometimes, peace looks like slowing down, doing what you can with what you have, and finding small ways to make the season meaningful again.
Here are a few practical ways to navigate the holidays, especially if you’re walking through them solo or with a tight budget.
✨ 1. Redefine What “Celebration” Looks Like
You don’t have to go big to make it special.
Light a candle. Play your favorite Christmas playlist. Watch a holiday movie in your coziest pajamas. Bake something simple. Decorate a small corner of your home even if it’s just a string of lights and a mug of hot cocoa.
The goal isn’t to perform Christmas.
It’s to experience peace.
💌 2. Create New Traditions (Just for You)
Who said traditions have to include a crowd?
Take yourself on a coffee date. Journal about what you’re grateful for this year even the small things. Go for a morning walk and pray. Volunteer somewhere.
New traditions can heal old memories.
💛 3. Give What You Can, Even If It’s Not Money
You don’t need money to make an impact. You can give encouragement, time, or prayer.
Call someone who might also be feeling alone. Send a text that says, “I’m thinking about you.”
And if you’re in a season where you truly have little to give - give yourself grace. That’s a gift too.
🕊 4. Let Yourself Feel What You Feel
If the holidays make you emotional, that’s okay. Cry if you need to. Rest if you need to.
Don’t rush your healing trying to keep up with everyone else’s highlight reel.
God is close to the brokenhearted and He’s close to you. Even now.
🌿 5. Look for Manna Even in This Season
The truth is, even when this time feels heavy, there’s still manna — small moments of provision and peace scattered throughout the season.
Maybe it’s a warm cup of coffee, a smile from a stranger, or quiet time with God.
He’s still providing. Even here. 🌾
If you’re looking for a few simple things to brighten your season: cozy comforts, encouraging books, or budget-friendly self-care ideas, I put together a little list for you on Benable. 💛
👉🏾 Explore My Holiday Manna List on Benable
These are things that make the quiet moments feel a little lighter, and remind you that joy doesn’t have to be expensive to be meaningful.
🌿 Keep Going: The Only Difference Is They Didn’t Stop
The only difference between you and them…
is that you stopped and they didn’t.
It’s not always talent. It’s not always timing.
Often, it’s simply consistency.
No matter what you’re working toward — growing your faith, building a business, creating content, improving your health, or walking in purpose — stopping can’t be an option if you want to see fruit.
🌾 They Kept Going
You might look at someone’s life and wonder:
“Why do they have so many followers?”
“Why does their business seem to be thriving?”
“Why do they seem so much stronger in their faith?”
But what if the answer isn’t that they’re better or more gifted — what if it’s that they just kept going?
They showed up when no one was watching.
They kept posting when no one liked the post.
They prayed when they didn’t feel anything.
They believed when nothing seemed to change.
Growth is often quiet. Progress is often unseen.
But those who endure — they reap the harvest.
“And let us not grow weary in well doing, for in due season we shall reap, if we do not give up.”
— Galatians 6:9
💛 When You Want to Quit
I’ll be honest — there are days I want to stop, too.
Days when it feels like I’m pouring out and seeing nothing return.
Days when the weight of waiting feels heavier than the promise of purpose.
But every time I think about quitting, I remember:
stopping guarantees I’ll never see what could have been.
Faith doesn’t always look like shouting on mountaintops — sometimes it’s whispering,
“I’ll try again tomorrow.”
“I’ll show up anyway.”
“I’ll keep going.”
✨ Reflection: What Have You Stopped?
Take a moment today and ask yourself:
What did I start that I’ve stopped?
Was it a dream, a goal, a routine, or a calling?
Is God inviting me to pick it back up?
You don’t need a perfect plan — just a willing heart.
Remember, the only difference between you and them is that they didn’t stop.
So today, decide: you won’t either.
Keep going. 🌾